I wrote down this on my notebook at April.18.2012.
You can gain trust by showing it by acting. Then, "Word" lives for the first time. No matter how much you try to seek the other person's understanding in words or ask the other person what you think in words, it is not necessarily true intention, and you cannot build a relationship of trust with words alone. Because you try to convey it in words, so you can't tell it.
All human nature is hidden in action. You can only gain trust in actions, and by continuing to show your actions and attitudes, you can finally convey it to others. I came to Germany and I can't use words to convey it because I can't speak German. I finally got the trust in a little over a year while struggling of not being able to understand the teammate, just acting earnestly, expressing and communicating with play.
It wasn't easy to get and realize the trust of my teammates, and it was a challenge to figure out what and how to gain trust.
Of course, keep scoring might be part of it, but essentially the part that wasn't there was bigger. I feel what the teammates are looking for and keep doing it steadily and repeatedly. At the same time as doing it, I was able to incorporate play into my senses as data, and the range of predictions and images expanded, and I was able to sense the space where the ball came.
And, it was made available as my weapon. Analysis → verification → practice: work to consciously unconsciously. That What I got by not communicating on the pitch using words.
After all, the word is only a tool. Words make sense as words when you take action and get them as experiences. Without it, words are merely ornaments, and they become superficial things.
If only what you have experienced makes sense as a language, you have no choice but to experience it. By verbalizing thinking, logical thinking is possible, and phenomena can be transmitted in language.
After all, it is meaningless if you can't tell it. So I challenge and experience.
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