I wrote down this on my notebook at April.18.2012.
You can gain trust by showing it by acting. Then, "Word" lives for the first time. No matter how much you try to seek the other person's understanding in words or ask the other person what you think in words, it is not necessarily true intention, and you cannot build a relationship of trust with words alone. Because you try to convey it in words, so you can't tell it.