Logic and emotions in communication

I feel that building relationships with people is an eternal theme for living as a human, but when the opinions of each other are opposite, How do you find a place to go and move your relationship forward as we do not break that relationship.? I feel the difficulty in that.

Like there are mutual opinions in the south and north, and you try to draw the same picture, but just as the stars seen in the southern and northern hemispheres are different, the scenery seen by each other is different.

It is important to find a star that can be seen from both sides like Orion, but it is difficult to find that star without conversation, and what kind of picture each other has. You need to know what you are looking at.

If we have some core opinions with each other, it is out of the essence to communicate to change the opinions of the other person.

While respecting each other's opinions, it is necessary to have a seasoned conversation that there is such a way of thinking and there is also such a view, and it is ideal to have a constructive relationship in that way.

Of course, I will not only convey the positive aspects of that opinion, but also the negative aspects. It is one of the important factors to build a relationship to talk logically without feeling emotional with each other.

However, humans have emotions.

You can't ignore it, and I think it's even more important to understand that feeling and find a good answer for each other.

There is a culture in Japan that it is not good to be emotional. Since I grew up with that kind of education, I still unconsciously try to suppress my emotions and talk, but sometimes I can't control my emotions and express my emotions.

But I don't think we can really make good choices for each other without showing emotions, and I don't think the answers derived from emotionless discussions will make each other 100% happy.

I feel it's necessary to show some emotions if it's not a runaway of expressing emotions, and it's easy to come up with the answer that this is theoretically the best, but add emotions to it. I think that is the real thrill of life.